Email John Key

To: john.key@national.org.nz

Subject: Time to stand up and be true to your word!

Dear Sir,

We believed you when you said that the first time this happened you would stand up and commit to scrapping this law.
No amount of spin will get you off the hook here.

Please read this : http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/1/story.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10477661

Now show us that it is worth staying in NZ . And show us that National has some guts.

Kind Regards

Whaleoil 

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  • sittingbull

    I was just checking out Family Firsts site.  Looking at prevoious complaints, all made by a caring member of the public.  Any person around you could actually turn into Mr Smith and shatter the fragile reality that your kids are actually yours.  Let the paranoia begin. 

  • shreddakj

    We have to remember that different people bruise from different amounts of force. I could have a rock thrown at me, a fist sized rock, hit me in the arm, leg, chest, shoulder or w/e and I would not bruise, but I know many people who bruise of you poke them.

  • Spanishbride

    "The child was grabbed so forcibly as to have been bruised. The mother
    of the child was sufficiently concerned to photograph the bruising and
    discuss the situation with others.

    Bruising IS assault in my book Whaleoil. Smacking stings but does not bruise.

    If I slap your face it may be red but not bruised if I punch your face we will both suffer bruising me to the knuckles and you to the jaw.

    The problem with the law is that somone who actually smacks without leaving damage will be treated the same as this father who lost his temper.

    Before the law was even written this father should have been charged with assault.

    If you ever bruised our son like that it would be totally unacceptable.

    We both choose to not smack our children but to use time out and punishment and reward to change their behaviour. The few times we were desperate enough to smack we did not bruise our children and it was totally inaffective.

    Also I cannot tell my children it is wrong to hit each other if I feel free to hit them no matter how lightly.

     Of course I agree that on the occasions that we did smack them it would be totally over the top to take each other to court.