Another child beaten to death

I had a conversation with another blogger about the likelihood of another maori child being based to death by the end of January. We both reckoned iPredict wouldn’t even offer stocks on that, since it was a near certainty.

Unfortunately we were both proved right.

A five-month-old baby who died in an alleged manslaughter in Hastings last week has been named.

Mikara Ranui Jarius Reti, of Flaxmere, was admitted to Hawkes Bay Regional Hospital last Tuesday night and “subsequently died”, police said.

A 21-year-old man, who has name suppression, has been charged with manslaughter.

He is due to appear in the Hastings District Court tomorrow.

Senior Sergeant Dave de Lange said members of the Mikara’s family had been “co-operative and helpful” with a police investigation.

Three things strike me here. First is of course the occurrence once again of Silly First Name Syndrome. If these people took even as much care of the child as they do in giving them stupid names then we would be a whole lot better off and the children may well be alive.

The second thing is we have a 21 year male, not from the family by the looks of the press details. Judith Collins in her Summer Series interview likened this to being the same as Tom Cats going around killing the offspring of other fathers.

“Vio­lent offender who acts very much like a tom­cat and goes around basically killing the young of the pre­vi­ous partner”.

I have coined a new syndrome for this:

SOCKS – Some Other C*nts Kid Syndrome, an affliction that sees the SOCK victim brutally killed by another male involved with the family.

The third thing is that the alleged animal who beat this child to death has name suppression but yet again the victim does not. The law is ass-backwards and clearly criminal friendly.

Of course the liberal hand-wringers like Rosemary McLeod will say it is whitey’s fault and society’s fault, and haters and wreckers like Hone Harawira will just blame whitey, but at some point Maori are going to have to own their own sh*t, because with all the vast sums of money pouring into their laps they still seem overly represented in all the wrong statistics. At some point we as a nation have to say money isn’t working, time to turn the tap off.

Ask Rosemary McLeod, if she cares about Blanket Man so much would she shower. clothe and take him to Shed 5 for lunch? Thought not, so she should STFU. Caring is what “other people” do. The fact she got paid to write that drivel just galls me, if Steve Braunias has to go then it is high time she crawled back into what ever liberal elitist tent she came from and then the Sunday Star Times can have some columnists with a grasp on reality.

Brutal killings of children require brutal solutions and brutal honesty. Sue Bradford said that these children were going to be protected, in actual fact it looks more like they are being killed in increasing numbers since her law was brought in. She lied to the nation and criminalised good parents in the process.

  • Graeme Edgeler

    I’m not sure Mikara is an SFN. Maybe if you include all the given names, but on it’s own it’s got nothing on the likes of Cherishsiliala.

  • http://www.blairmulholland.co.nz BlairM

    What pisses me off is that everybody gets mad about the wrong things. Leftists get mad at “society” and “racism”, and rednecks get mad at “Maoris” and “Maori culture”. And of course there are glimmers of truth in all those reasons, but the main problem is welfare and the DPB. The ridiculously high minimum wage does not help matters either.

    If people could challenge their anger into demanding welfare reform, we might be getting some way towards stopping the killings.

    • cashieo

      can you please expand on the link between the DPB and child abuse.

  • http://www.blairmulholland.co.nz BlairM

    Graeme is correct – Mikara is not a silly first name – it’s Maori for Michael as far as I can tell.

  • stormereti

    Mikara is a beautiful name!
    Your such a asshole!!! That you could put down the name of a dead baby!
    WAKE UP TO YOURSELF!!!!!! NO ONE CARES WHAT PEOPLE LIKE YOU THINK! YOUR CRUEL! THATS A BABY YOUR MAKING FUN OF!
    YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!!

    • http://whaleoil.gotcha.co.nz Whaleoil

      You care, you commented, now fuck off.

      It’s not a baby, it’s corpse, killed by a Mongrel Mob scum coward. Soft soaping reality ain’t going to bring that kid back.

    • alchemyst

      Dear Stormereti
      of that entire article I simply can’t believe that the you are complaining about a comment about the victims first name.
      Are you not able to get your head around the fact that this is ANOTHER child murdered by someone of it’s own ethnicity (I won’t use the word race as there is no Maori race anymore).
      Have a look at the bigger picture……..

  • stormereti

    Aw my gosh you make me sick.
    Thats my nephew your talking about!
    And No! it had nothing to do with the mongrel mob! And yes he this stupid man is Scum! And he will get what is coming to him when he goes to court!
    You just don’t have a clue what has happened the family doesnt even know all the facts!
    How can you be so quick to judge!
    You should try talking about things you have abit of experience in.
    If you lost a loved one like this you wouldn’t want people disrespecting his name.
    Apologise to my nephew
    And get a life!!

    • http://whaleoil.gotcha.co.nz Whaleoil

      Apologise to a dead person!…what do you want me to use a fucking Ouija board?

      As for the mongrel mob connection…well…http://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/article.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10700405

      Stop looking for excuses…and start looking for solutions…

      They called this kid Jarius as a preference FFS… “Jarius is an uncommon first name for men and an equally uncommon last name for both men and women. (1990 U.S. Census)”
      http://www.thinkbabynames.com/meaning/1/Jarius

      In other words ghetto slang. I haven’t noticed any Thomas, David or Paul being bashed to death by members of their family, invited or otherwise.

      • clark

        New lows Whale?

        Not only do you mock the poor kid, you then mock his relatives while they’re mourning?

        A lot of people made fun of other people’s names back in primary school. Most of us grew out of it by the time we reached adulthood.

        And FWIW your own kids aren’t exactly called John and Mary. Some people would say YOUR kids have got weird names. Just saying.

        • lulu

          He doesn’t “mock his relatives” . He mocks the dead baby’s name. He challenges the relatives of this dead baby and other similar families to take responsibility and stop killing their babies rather than caring enough about them when they are alive to save them. Just saying.

          • cashieo

            No, he mocked the family, *clears throat* let me quote: What do you want me to do, use a fucking ouija board? Rude, trashy behaviour.

      • cashieo

        What is wrong with you? Can you not see how violent your comments are? And as for the connection to the mongrel mob- that someone made a ‘mob’ salute to the accused.. pretty thin link. What are your solutions then, because you’re not really offering any- apart from hateful blogging.

  • stormereti

    I shouldnt of even written anything !
    You people dont know.
    Thanks to those who support what ive writen

    They call my nephew a victim and then they mock his name! APPALLING!

    In loving memory of Mikara Ranui Jarius Reti
    We will always Love you Little boy
    You will always be our precious little baby
    Its so sad we lost you so suddenly and so tragically
    The evil man who did this to you will pay
    You will have justice my boy

    **Moons will come and moons will go but still there is You and I**

    Rest in peace Mikara
    Our Love for you is FOREVER
    oxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

    • http://whaleoil.gotcha.co.nz Whaleoil

      You’re right, you shouldn’t have written anything.

      Answer me this though, if Jarius was so loved how come he is dead?

      Why is that all this out-pouring of loves always comes after the kid is bashed to death and never before?

      Why was it that nothing was ever said BEFORE this child was bashed to death when this person in all likelihood displayed violence int he household?

      Stop blaming the commentators and take responsibility. The poor kid was a victim when he was given and called a silly name, that in and of itself is child abuse.

      Until you recognise that, and that loving caregivers don’t bash kids to death then you will never understand and blame me and other instead.

      In your best interests i suggest you don’t comment again, because your comments have got sillier.

      • stormereti

        Aw where are you from Cameron Slater? Whale rider!!!!!!!!!!!

        Your a living corpse speaking dead words!
        Jump on your whale and ride back to Fiji or India where ever you come from
        Our whole family are looking at your disguisting comments.
        And we just hope you never have to have salt rubbed in your wounds by strangers who know NOTHING!

        Bula, Wula, Bollos, Coco, Nutto, Naka balls,
        Aminiasi Emori Esekia Inoke Joeli Jone Jope Jovesa Jyotika Kamisese Laisenia Lemeki Leveni Manasa Marika Penaia Poneshni Ratu Reathash Sitiveni Smi Tamiela Timi Waisale
        And you call Maori names silly????

        Dont be ashamed of your heritage we are not!

        • tristanb

          Mikara is a fine name.

          Please if you already have children, put them first before your partner and your own needs. If you don’t have children yet – please never have any with a drug user, or anyone violent, or anyone who hasn’t shown you proper commitment (i.e not just bullshit words).

          If you get pregnant – consider your options – if you are not ready for a child don’t let anyone talk you out of a termination. Make sure that your own life is on track before you bring another into the world.

          If you get pregnant, and decide to continue – do not name the child like it is an American Gangsta. A name can be a first impression before you’re even seen, make sure you think about the child’s success in the future – this is more important than having a cool baby name to impress your friends.

          Sorry for being so patronising. I am very sorry for the loss of your nephew.

        • clark

          Stormreti, thoughts and prayers are with your family right now, and with little Mikara. May he rest in peace.

          I am so sorry for your loss.

          As for the rest of you – ffs. This family is co-operating with the police, and an arrest has been made – they aren’t the bloody Kahuis. The guy who murdered this poor baby wasn’t part of the extended family. We don’t know yet what the connection was. So why don’t you wait til all the facts are in before you start making judgments?

    • alchemyst

      if you are infact related to this poor baby….. maybe you can take your frustrations out on this baby’s neglectful mother who was clearly more concerned about her own needs (and I think you can read between the lines here) than those of her baby. What mother in her right mind would put her child in the line of danger as she has.
      nuff said

  • thor42

    Well….. I remember a Maori saying -
    “He aha te mea nui o te ao? He tangata, he tangata, he tangata.”
    “What is the most important thing in the world? It is people, it is people, it is people”.

    It is a very nice saying. Only one problem – the people who wrote that are not matching those words with their actions.

    I’ve been reading a book about a small NGO called the Central Asia Institute, started by an amazing guy called Greg Mortensen. The short story – after a failed attempt to climb K2, he got lost and stumbled into a village called Korphe, in northern Pakistan. There, he noticed that the children (without even a teacher present) were scratching their lessons into the dirt with sticks. Mortensen then vowed to return and build them a school, and he did.

    Since then, the CAI has built over 160 schools in those areas. The CAI build schools in the most remote regions of Afghanistan and Pakistan. The parents of the children in those areas are desperate to get their children educated. Is it too much to ask that the Maori people here do the same? They are much better off than the penniless villagers in Pakistan and Afghanistan.

  • http://frontrower.gotcha.co.nz The Frontrower

    Ben Hana (commonly called Blanket Man) refuses all help that would get him a home and treatment for his alcohol and drug adictions. He will happily take money or cannabis from you.

    Bob Jones (no the other one, commonly called Bucket Man) was the same for refusing all help to get him off the streets. He carried all his possessions with him in his two buckets and subsided on the food and coffee bought for him at McDonalds on Lambton Quay. When he died many people offered to pay for his funeral but it turned out he had several thousand dollars in a bank account.

    Anyway, the point is this. Sometimes people don’t want to be helped. Fine if it is just them killing themselves slowly, but when it is little babies like Jarius who die we all seem to get angry at the perpetrator and forget the common threads – uneducated, welfare dependent, living in state house slums, and non-traditional family structure for several generations.

    Unravelling this is not an overnight process, but it needs to be done with reform of the welfare system to get people into work and making non-custodial parents more responsible for the financial upkeep of their children. It will improve the long term outcomes for the childrens in these households as fathers can’t just walk out and someone in the household having a job builds more self-esteem. But as welfare advocates make it sound like kids are being starved it is politically unpopular.

  • count

    No problem – she will just make another one…

    “the boy’s mother, Jamie Te Whare, who had another son aged about two and was pregnant.”

    Is the DPB a NCEA subject yet?

    • cashieo

      That is heartless to say ‘she’ll just make another one’. You may be angry that this happens- we all are, but to say something so cruel as that is disgusting.

  • lulu

    “We will always Love you Lit­tle boy
    You will always be our pre­cious lit­tle baby”

    Hey Stormeriti, if he was so precious how come he is dead?

    My baby was precious and he didn’t end up dead.

    What do you mean when you say your little baby is precious?

  • crabby

    Stormoretti, I am very sorry for the loss of this Child.

    I want to clarify though, you say people dont know all the facts. The only fact that is important is this Baby is now dead. what other facts should people know?

  • Agent BallSack

    Sorry about the little kid being beaten to death. More telling is Stormeriti’s choice of name perhaps.
    Iti = little in Maori, thereby giving them a username of ‘Little Stormer’. Perhaps CYFS might deign to drop around to Stormeriti’ house one day and check on the safety of her children?

  • lulu

    I am haunted by another violent death of a baby.
    I am sorry the Stormeriti is going through the pain she is going through and I am sorry about the whole name thing. (refer to the death of Mikara Ranui Jarius Reti January 18 2011)
    Here is my last word on the subject for now.
    This unfortunate defenceless baby has died and he follows a growing list of babies who die in an essentially similar way i.e. at the hands of someone amongst the family community.
    His family community allowed the killer into its midst and did not identify the warning signs or patterns of behaviour that lead to this death
    That makes it collectively responsibly for failing to provide a safe environment for a defenceless baby or toddler
    Whatever the specific circumstances are for this unfortunate baby the pattern is a recurring one.
    Another unfortunate defenceless baby out there will soon die a similar violent death.
    The killer is amongst the family community now. They are failing to identify the signs now. They will talk about their sadness just as Stormeriti has done. They too will be collectively responsible.
    The only things we can be sure about its name is that it will join a sad and growing list of babies/toddlers killed violently at the hands of one of its own.

  • robb

    People i can understand some of these comments it makes me and Jamies immediate family ill ,thinking of her baby being hurt and murdered.I am her Aunt,and Stormes mother.The facts will come out soon enough and you will see that NO ONE IN THE FAMILY SAW HIM HIT THAT BOY!!! and if you knew that family you would know that they are decent people.The HASTINGS POLICE HAVE BEEN MARVELLOUS AND THOROUGH!We dont agree with some of Jamies choices but we love her.In saying that we would never cover her or hinder the truth.That boy certainly wouldnt have done anything to that baby in front of anyone,let alone the grandparents who fed and sung to that boy and helped care for him.iT WAS A ORDINARY Tuesday night,all home had dinner watching telly.NO DRUG ADDICTS, NO BOOZY PARTY. There was NO indication he was a danger to those boys.where was Jamie? bathing and feeding her 2 year old ,like she does every night.i never met the horror who did this,but i had asked Jamie months ago if he was a good man to her boys,i also asked her little sister if he was kind to the boys as i thought it was alot for a new partner to take on.Everyone liked him so we are all so very shocked.i agree with some of the comments WOMEN be careful who you bring into your home especially when you have children,takes a very special person to love and raise someone elses children.MEN WEAR CONDOMS IF YOUR NOT READY TO BE A FATHER.Jamie chose to have her kids and not abort.She made a mistake loving that actor.And Baby Mikara had to pay WITH HIS INNOCENT LIFE.We are all sorry we didnt see anything and nobody more than his mother.

  • http://angryvictim.gotcha.co.nz/ Lauren Order