Just hit back

A US expert says kids who are victims of bullies should just hit them back:

Bully victims should fight back with their fists – and parents should not be so over-protective, says an overseas expert.

And while American human behavioural specialist Dr John Demartini’s views have been decried in Australia, a New Zealand parenting guru agrees with him.

Ian Grant, the co-founder of Parents Inc, said a generation of Kiwi children were being raised as “Peter Pans” who were easy targets for bullies.

Mr Grant said although violence should be treated as an absolute last resort, in a very few cases it could put an end to bullying.

“What’s happened in our modern world is that we have welded words. So if you say violence, people think it’s cruel and evil.

“But sometimes you’ve got to stand up for yourself, and if that means hitting somebody else, I don’t have any issue with that.”

Watch all the sooks express outrage at such sensible advice. I bet Casey Heynes hasn’t been touched ever again since he smacked down his bully.

  • Ross

    I was the Invercargill equivilant of Casey Heynes (many decades ago) After a solid 2 years of bullying at High School I struck my blow for the chubby Ginger brigade and demolished my torturer in an epic fistfight.

    It was the best thing I’ve possibly ever done as far as self esteem goes. The (group) of bullies didn’t come with 500feet of me for the rest of my time at school. If anyone out there has a kid being bullied – steer them towards the “bloody nose” option of dealing with it. It totally takes some balls to do it, but they’ll treasure the fact they made a stand forever. Teacher etc intervention will just make it worse, for sure. Give em one for Edendale! ha ha 

  • Dave

    That would have definitely got him a red card in the Wales game!