Yesterday I blogged about my experience with people who I consider to be gossipers and bigots¬†and their desire to oppose something as simple as marriage equality. the comments on each and every post on the matter have yet to show me any compelling evidence as to why two people who love each other shouldn’t be able to marry.
Andrew Sullivan also had this piece:
Mark Oppenheimer¬†profiles¬†Maggie Gallagher, marriage equality’s most notorious foe. Of interest:
In her forthcoming book, she writes that ‚Äúincluding same-sex unions in the legal category of ‚Äėmarriage‚Äô will necessarily change the public meaning of marriage for the entire society in ways that must make it harder for marriage to perform its core civil functions over time.‚ÄĚ How do we know? We just do.
And even if somehow the evidence showed, conclusively, that same-sex marriage were¬†good¬†for children? Gallagher would still be dissatisfied: ‚ÄúNothing could make me call a same-sex couple a marriage, because that‚Äôs not what I believe a marriage is.‚ÄĚ
Gallagher’s declaration that her mind cannot be changed is the statement of a fundamentalist. There is no greater sin against open debate than to¬†preemptively¬†seal oneself off from evidence.¬†Will Wilkinson, on the other hand,¬†considers¬†what it would take for him to change his mind about various issues, marriage equality among them.