Movember

Movember coming up

I’m joining the growing club of modern gentlemen who believe in the virtues of fine moustachery, immaculate grooming and growing a moustache for Movember. I am looking for like-minded ladies and gentlemen to join the Bloggers Union team to change the face of men’s health.

Movember is about raising funds and awareness for men’s health, specifically prostate cancer and depression in men. Close to 3,000 men are diagnosed with prostate cancer in New Zealand each year and 1  in 10 men will experience depression in their lifetime. Many of these men do not seek help.

I think it’s time we did something about this.

The more people I can get on board, the more lives we can impact. I am asking you to join my team and either grow a moustache as a Mo Bro, or join as a Mo Sista to help recruit other gentlemen.

To join my Movember Bloggers team go to http://nz.movember.com/register/105390 and follow the steps. Once registered you’ll be sent all the information you need to raise funds and start growing as part of my Movember team.

If you’re interested in learning more about the work that is being carried out as a result of Movember funds, feel free to read the details at http://nz.movemberfoundation.com/research-and-programs.

I hope you join me to change the face of men’s health.

#Movember last day for @Whaleoil

Today is the last day of Movember and how appropriate and awful that I suffered one of my darkest days in a long while. This is the thing with depression, you can be going along nicely then all of a sudden you have a night with little sleep for no reason and the following day you can’t, and I mean can’t, even get out of bed. You just want to hide from the world and wish everyone would leave you alone. You can from my lack of posts today that I just wasn’t there. I love blogging but I just couldn’t bring myself to even write one word. I’m not going to post a photo of the last day of my mo, I look and feel terrible.

And so on the last day of Movember I pretty much did nothing at all, just lay on my bed and stared. I hardly slept at all last night and I hardly slept today. Just a kind of catatonic, do nothing stasis which saps the energy from you like a black hole. The tightness in the chest, the tense muscles, the aching arm from the tense-ness, they must all be a figment of my imagination according to the insurance company. The shortness of breathe from a very fit person, the hyper-vigilance in large crowds, all imaginery. The utter exhaustion from a simple trip to a shopping mall is imagined too. That is just some of the things that I feel.

This ain’t fun and the c*nts from the left who keep posting comments about it really fuck me off. I’m telling you that no-one chooses this ife and it isn’t just a case of taking your harden the fuck up pills either. If it was I’d be fine.

There aren’t that many people out there tougher than me, either in their beliefs, standing up for what they believe in or even physically. I don’t give in and never shy from a fight but this fight of mine for the past 5 years has been the toughest fight of my life. That is why it irks me that I have to sue an insurance company, that I have to prove what my closest of friends already know, what my doctors and support people know.

But they have to know that I don’t give in and that I have barely started to fight back, but fight back I will. People tell me I am mad to share things like this but the one thing I have never done is hide anything, I have never shirked from sharing so that others may know. There are no skeletons.

Thank you to those few who support me through this, you know who you are, and thanks to those who have donated to Movember.

To sponsor my Mo, you can either:

•    Click this link http://nz.movember.com/mospace/17568/ and donate online using your credit card
•    Write a cheque payable to ‘Movember’, referencing my Registration Number 17568 and mailing it to: Movember, PO Box 12 708, Wellington 6144

Remember, all donations over $5 are tax deductible.

Thanks

Whaleoil

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Movember update

Movember for WhaleoilOk so you all know that I am growing a moustache this year for Movember.  I have decided to put down my razor for one month (November) and help raise awareness and funds for men’s health – specifically prostate cancer and depression in men.

What many people don’t appreciate is that close to 600 men die of prostate cancer each year in New Zealand and one in ten men will experience depression in their lifetime – many of whom don’t seek help. Facts like these as well as being a sufferer of major depressionhave convinced me I should get involved and I am hoping that you will support me.

To sponsor my Mo, you can either:

•    Click this link http://nz.movember.com/mospace/17568/ and donate online using your credit card
•    Write a cheque payable to ‘Movember’, referencing my Registration Number 17568 and mailing it to: Movember, PO Box 12 708, Wellington 6144

Remember, all donations over $5 are tax deductible.

To join my Movember team go to http://nz.movember.com/register/5840 and follow steps. Once registered you’ll be sent all the information you need to get donations and get growing as part of my Movember team.

Our Team which includes MP Aaron Gilmore is currently ranked #264 in the country. Let’s go for a top 50 finish. Come on loyal readers let’s have some Tory charity.

If you are interested in following the progress of my Mo, click here http://nz.movember.com/mospace/17568/. Also, http://nz.movember.com has heaps of useful information.

Thank you

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Movember – Day 10

Movember - Day 10As you all know I am growing a moustache again for Movember.  I have decided to put down my razor for one month (November) and help raise awareness and funds for men’s health – specifically prostate cancer and depression in men.

What many people don’t appreciate is that close to 600 men die of prostate cancer each year in New Zealand and one in ten men will experience depression in their lifetime – many of whom don’t seek help. Facts like these have convinced me I should get involved and I am hoping that you will support me.

To join my Movember team go to http://nz.movember.com/register/5840 and follow steps. Once registered you’ll be sent all the information you need to get donations and get growing as part of my Movember team.

To sponsor my Mo, you can either:

•    Click this link http://nz.movember.com/mospace/17568/ and donate online using your credit card
•    Write a cheque payable to ‘Movember’, referencing my Registration Number 17568 and mailing it to: Movember, PO Box 12 708, Wellington 6144

Remember, all donations over $5 are tax deductible.

Movember is now in its fourth year and, to date, has achieved some pretty amazing results by working alongside The Cancer Society and the Mental Health Foundation of New Zealand. Check out further details at: http://nz.movemberfoundation.com/research-and-programs.

If you are interested in following the progress of my Mo, click here http://nz.movember.com/mospace/17568/. Also, http://nz.movember.com has heaps of useful information.

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Standard set too low

The Standard recently asked why Cam Slater’s friends don’t control him or don’t assist him more with his depression.  As one of his friends I can tell you that some of us do support him through his depression.  I accept Cam for who he is, because that is who he is – depression included.  I don’t agree with him on everything – OK, so we can disagree on plenty.   However, I am his friend, I don’t control my friends.

I also laughed at the suggestion that Cam’s rantings on WOBH were of a mad man, and that there is a correlation between being of the Right AND depression.  Perhaps there is.  I too have had depressive episodes in my life but there is a problem with correlating depression with right wing belief.

I suffered my first depressive episode in my early teens.  Back then I was considered a very politically motivated, vocal supporter and demonstrator on the LEFT of the political spectrum.  Yet, I still got depression.  I didn’t seek help for it then and instead self-medicated.  Indeed I never sought help for depression until I had Post-Natal depression with my first child.  May be those of us on the Right just talk about it more?

We need to talk about depression – and we need to do it in a way that we don’t marginalize anyone.  The Standard’s attempt to do a warm and fuzzy post about depression and Cameron was littered with an undertone of “We know best” and “look at the poor nutcase”. Further comment then followed suggesting that because some right-wing bloggers have admitted to depression as well means there is something wrong with us and the way we think and express ourselves.

The sort of discourse undertaken by The Standard does everything to marginalize mental health issues further.  By undertaking an attack on Cam and his depression The Standard run the risk of marginialising all people with depression.   By all means attack Cameron’s views, but don’t stoop to using his depression.  And yes, as a friend I do tell Cameron when I think he is attacking another person in a way that is unacceptable to me.  It works both ways.

I encourage those with depression to talk about it.  By talking about your own issues, in the past or present, you might just encourage someone else to seek help.

Please support Cam and his Movember team.

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Movember – Day 4

Movember - Day 4I am growing a moustache this year for Movember.  I have decided to put down my razor for one month (November) and help raise awareness and funds for men’s health – specifically prostate cancer and depression in men.

What many people don’t appreciate is that close to 600 men die of prostate cancer each year in New Zealand and one in ten men will experience depression in their lifetime – many of whom don’t seek help. Facts like these have convinced me I should get involved and I am hoping that you will support me. Whatever you do don’t pick Fxxxxxx Lxxx as your insurer, they don’t care about depression.

To join my Movember team go to http://nz.movember.com/register/5840 and follow steps. Once registered you’ll be sent all the information you need to get donations and get growing as part of my Movember team.

To sponsor my Mo, you can either:

•    Click this link http://nz.movember.com/mospace/17568/ and donate online using your credit card
•    Write a cheque payable to ‘Movember’, referencing my Registration Number 17568 and mailing it to: Movember, PO Box 12 708, Wellington 6144

Remember, all donations over $5 are tax deductible.

Movember is now in its fourth year and, to date, has achieved some pretty amazing results by working alongside The Cancer Society and the Mental Health Foundation of New Zealand. Check out further details at: http://nz.movemberfoundation.com/research-and-programs.

If you are interested in following the progress of my Mo, click here http://nz.movember.com/mospace/17568/. Also, http://nz.movember.com has heaps of useful information.

Thank you

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Movember – Day 2

Whaleoil Movember Day 2Movember update. We now have three team members. Aaron Gilmore MP  and Russel Thomson have joined the team for Movember. Welcome guys.

To join my Movember team go to http://nz.movember.com/register/5840 and follow steps. Once registered you’ll be sent all the information you need to get donations and get growing as part of my Movember team.

In case you hadn’t noticed am growing a moustache this year for Movember.  I have decided to put down my razor for one month (November) and help raise awareness and funds for men’s health – specifically prostate cancer and depression in men.

What many people don’t appreciate is that close to 600 men die of prostate cancer each year in New Zealand and one in ten men will experience depression in their lifetime – many of whom don’t seek help. Facts like these have convinced me I should get involved and I am hoping that you will support me.

To sponsor my Mo, you can either:

•    Click this link http://nz.movember.com/mospace/17568/ and donate online using your credit card
•    Write a cheque payable to ‘Movember’, referencing my Registration Number 17568 and mailing it to: Movember, PO Box 12 708, Wellington 6144

Remember, all donations over $5 are tax deductible.

Movember is now in its fourth year and, to date, has achieved some pretty amazing results by working alongside The Cancer Society and the Mental Health Foundation of New Zealand. Check out further details at: http://nz.movemberfoundation.com/research-and-programs.

If you are interested in following the progress of my Mo, click here http://nz.movember.com/mospace/17568/. Also, http://nz.movember.com has heaps of useful information.

Thank you and remember be very careful about which insurance company you select.

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Lucky to be alive

This is a particularly egregious case of Silly First Name Syndrome. It isn’t any wonder that he was distracted with the large amount of bad karma travelling with him in the same vehicle. I’m not surprised at all. It almost sounds like he trying to hit the train.

A man accused of the manslaughter of his four-year-old son after allegedly driving around a barrier arm and into the path of an 800-tonne goods train told police he was “distracted”, a court as heard.

Alan Stephens, 39, unemployed of Runsiman [sic], south of Auckland, appeared in Pukekohe District Court today charged with reckless driving causing manslaughter and three charges of reckless driving causing injury.

Crown prosecutor Kevin Glubb said in his opening statement that Stephens had left home in his Silver Mitsubishi Mirage mid-afternoon on February 20 with his three children – Shannyne, 6, Tray, 4 and Holly, 2 – and his niece Nakita, 12.

All except Nakita were wearing seat belts.

When Stephens approached the railway intersection at Paerata, near Pukekohe, he did not stop at the barrier arms but drove around them, he said.

“That took his vehicle directly into the path of the oncoming freight train,” Mr Glubb said.

Still the slaughter and the injuries continue and no one except this blog does anything about it.

National torn over Mt Albert candidacy

National torn over Mt Albert candidacyThe National Party is embroiled in a backroom power struggle over its Mt Albert candidate, with the hierarchy’s favourite, Melissa Lee, trying to tip out grassroots toiler Ravi Musuku. Ms Lee is a list MP and one of National’s… [NZ Herald Politics]

Spam journalism this morning from Patrick Gower. The National Party isn’t torn at all over Mt Albert. Only Ravi Mususku is. He just hasn’t got it yet that this by-election is important. So important that National doesn’t want cannon-fodder fed into the attack.

What Ravi fails to understand is that he was cannon-fodder. party folk won’t tell him that but I am far too honest. When standing in a safe seat against the then incumbent Prime Minister you are only going to to get mowed down.

When a by-election comes along after the former Prime Minister resigns there is a whole new set of dynamics. The personality that held the electorate together behind Helen Clark has gone, in a flash it turns out and hasn’t even bothered with any speechs or otherwise to mark the occaison. She could bolt fast enough….making a mockery of putting Mt Albert first…..more like putting herself first.

Ravi needs to get with the programme and fall in behind like the loyal soldier he is. If he plays nice the party will play nice. If he plays dumb he will get mowed down. Simple really.

Tizard time-bomb ticking under Mt Albert

Tizard time-bomb ticking under Mt AlbertLabour’s “Tizard dilemma” is not going to resolve itself, with Judith Tizard hanging on to the ticket that will get her back to Parliament. The cause of the problem is the Mt Albert byelection: if list MP Phil Twyford wins the… [NZ Herald Politics]

Patrick Gower exposes the upgrading of the Tizard Dilemma to a Time Bomb.

Unfortunately for Labour Tizard hasn’t really helped the situation with her comments to Patrick.Ms Tizard said Labour would be silly to buy into the “Tizard dilemma” and try and keep her out.

“If there is not a place for a 53-year-old woman who has been in elected positions for 26 of her 31 years, I guess I would want to know what the problem was.”

Ms Tizard said she had not yet been approached to stand aside, nor had she gone to the party to ask if there was a problem.

She said she was enjoying life outside Parliament and was astonished at the “craziness” of speculation about her possible return.

“I am gardening, I am spending time with my friends and family. I am reading, I am writing. I have just gone and bought a lampshade. I have a life.”

Riiiiight, So The Tiz thinks that the demographic for Barren Old Biddies with no work experience is under represented. She just can’t stop telling lies though, as if she has any friends, no one believes that, even The Standard is openly mocking her.