This is a lot less stupid or irrational than homeopathy.
Wearing a red mini dress and stilettos, Nicole Daedone slips into an apron. â€śI wear an apron because Iâ€™ve ruined all my dresses with lube at this point,â€ť she jokes. A small blonde woman clad in black comes out and joins Daedone on stage. We are in the Scottish Rite Center, a masonic temple in downtown Oakland, California. The massive columned room is packed with people of all ages, shapes, and sizes. They have been dancing, yelling out. Call this the orgasm revival.
A massage table with cushions is carried onto the stage. â€śA demo is fundamentally a celebration,â€ť quips Daedone. She pulls on a pair of rubber gloves. The blonde woman climbs onto the table, takes off her pants, spreads her legs, and the demo begins.
Nicole Daedone is the founder of One Tasteâ€”a business dedicated to teaching â€śorgasmic meditation,â€ť or â€śOM.â€ť This was the keynote opening to the OMX 2014 Unconditional Sex: Entering the Flow State conference last weekend. In front of a crowd of just more than 700 people (plus a telecasting), Daedone proceeded to bring the woman on stage to a state of orgasmic bliss using a complex stroking technique that she has learned from a lifetime of spiritual and sexual training. She gave the crowd a taste of what she terms an â€śunapologetically asymmetricalâ€ť practice that focuses unilaterally on the female orgasm as a means of finding deeper connection to the body, the divine, and each other.
â€śWe women are prone to exaggeration,â€ť she told the crowd. â€śYou want to learn to bring her to a state where nothing can be faked. â€¦ We aim for a state of involuntarily being turned onâ€”swelling of the lips, darkening of the eyes, crying.â€ť
The conference, a three day event hosting speakers ranging from Naomi Wolf, author ofÂ VaginaÂ andÂ New York TimesÂ bestselling author Steven Kotler to a BDSM expert named ClĂ©o DuBois and Dr. Jenny Wade, an expert on transcendental sex, was as much a meeting place as it was revival or cultish festival. The lectures were punctuated by raffles, dance parties, and every hour, on the hour, the option to OMâ€”to practice the orgasm meditation that brought all these names together. â€śMost of us have an incredibly limited understanding of what orgasm can be,â€ť Daedone explained. Â Â Read more »