Violence against women

HoS editorial on Name Suppression for the “Politician”

The Herald on Sunday followed up its story about the “politician” from the leafy suburbs with an editorial about the same case.

The editorial drops some hints as to the identity. Please do not take that licence to guess in the comments…to do so will get you the ban hammer faster than Pete or Travis can swing it.

He is one of the wealthiest men in New Zealand. He supports MPs who changed the law to expressly state that a defendant’s public profile should not, of itself, be grounds for keeping his identity secret.

And, in an acrimonious, multi-million dollar marriage break-up, this man was alleged to have grabbed or touched his wife’s neck, and admitted trying to kick in the door of their home and shouting abuse at her.

But in the Family Court this week, Judge David Burns ordered that the man’s identity be indefinitely suppressed – that anyone who even whispers at his identity be liable to three months’ imprisonment or a $2,000 fine.

Why? It is because his Queen’s Counsel, Lady Deborah Chambers, used a clause in the Family Courts Act to have him categorised as a “vulnerable person”, as both he and his wife had unsuccessfully sought protection orders against each other at the height of the drawn-out, torrid break-up.¬† Read more »

PC Brigade say don’t make your kids kiss granny

Britain once again shows the stupidity of giving taxpayers money to idiots with degrees to inform us how to live.

Time for the poms to go on a Quango hunt.

Getting a reluctant child to give an elderly relative a kiss often requires some gentle persuasion.

But parents who force their sons and daughters to give granny a peck on the cheek may be doing them harm, it was claimed yesterday.

For instead of helping a child learn about showing affection, it may blur the boundaries of what is acceptable when it comes to physical contact, according to Lucy Emmerson, co-ordinator of the Sex Education Forum.

She even claims that encouraging a youngster to blow a kiss, high-five or wave to a relative instead will help them avoid future sexual exploitation.

Children need to learn from the start about the importance of consent and that ‚Äėtheir bodies are their own‚Äô, she says. ¬† Read more »

Something to discuss at conference

Here is something to discuss at break out groups or the tea breaks at the National party conference this weekend…on top of the useless efforts of Nathan Guy with the snapper issue.

There is one positive from the global financial crisis that continues to engulf Europe and the increase¬†in male unemployment ‚Äď a significant drop in domestic violence toward females:

The results showed that the 3.7 percentage point increase in male unemployment during the time caused a¬†decline¬†in the incidence of domestic abuse by 12 percent. Meanwhile, the 3 percentage point increase in female unemployment¬†increased¬†domestic violence by 10 percent. The correlation held for all kinds of abuse, but it was stronger for physical violence.¬† Read more »

Sue Moroney should just abolish suppression orders for domestic violence

If you bash your missus, or get goons to kick in a door and use emotion and financial blackmail in a leafy suburb, you get a high paid lawyer and a suppression order.

Justice should be equal for all, not more equal for people with an expensive lawyer.

Domestic abusers could face harsher penalties under a proposed law change from the Labour Party.

Labour’s Sue Moroney ¬†today unveiled a private member’s bill to make domestic violence an aggravating factor at sentencing on assault or other family violence charges, enabling judges to hand down stricter punishments.¬† Read more »

It’s Not OK, ever

Domestic violence must be stamped out at all levels, including leafy suburbs where suppression orders to protect those in high political office who like to show their women the back of their hand.

An anti-violence campaigner has called on Northland men to “man up” and lead the way against domestic violence by speaking up if they see others abusing loved ones.

Hundreds marched through central Whangarei yesterday to protest against domestic violence following the violent death of mother of two Patricia Ann Mcgrath.

The mother of two, nicknamed Wowo, died on January 8 in Whangarei Hospital after she was taken off life support following an assault four days earlier in her Kamo home.¬† Read more »

Maybe he can help out the National Party?

ŠĒ• NZ Herald

Perhaps he might like to assist the National party, since they just seem to think that the best approach to domestic violence is to sweep it all under the carpet and have senior politicians wax lyrical about the standing of Mr B:

For the past two years, the community-minded McGlashan has been the national coordinator and an ambassador for Blow The Whistle On Violence, a nationwide campaign through which sports stars have encouraged families and communities to work together to eliminate domestic violence.

Does he feel the same way about Mr B?

ŠĒ• White Ribbon Day New Zealand

Simon Bridges made a statement that New Zealand still has a serious family violence problem when talking about a Bay of Plenty Times Weekend story about convicted child abuser Reuben Anthony Major.

Tauranga MP Simon Bridges says the case is a “graphic illustration” that New Zealand still had a serious family violence problem. A “complete culture change” needed to happen before the problem would be eliminated, he said.

I wonder if he feels the same way about Mr B? What will he do to ensure the party takes the same stand he does and calls out Mr B?

Will he support constitutional change that requires all applicants for Regional and Board positions to declare whether or not they are subject to any court action or even if they are subject to any name suppression orders?

Something for Mr B

ŠĒ• Yahoo

Domestic Violence in any form is unacceptable…unfortunately powerful and connected people like to sweep things under the carpet. This video gets cut through on the issue, as part of the Don’t Cover it Up campaign for Refuge in the UK:

Luke’s make-up videos have racked up more than 126 million views and her 440,000-plus subscribers, most of whom are young and female, are the target audience for a new campaign by the U.K.-based charity Refuge, to raise awareness about domestic violence. According to Refuge, one woman in four experiences domestic violence during her lifetime, two women are killed each week by a current or former partner, and 65 percent of victims try to keep the abuse hidden. The copy at the end of Luke’s video simply reads, “Don’t cover it up. Share this and help someone speak out. #dontcoveritup”

I wonder when Mr B. and his supporters will stop covering it up?

 

Good move in Australia on Domestic Violence

ŠĒ• Sydney Morning Herald

Some good moves in Australia to widen the definition of domestic violence. If such changes were made here then people wouldn;t be able to whispetr around the parlimanetary precinct that “she was mad anyway, he never hit her and she deserved it anyway” as they excuse the domestic violence of a senior political figure:

The definition of domestic violence will be expanded to include emotional manipulation, withholding money and harming the family pet under controversial changes to family law.

The changes, which become law on Thursday, for the first time broaden the definition of violence beyond physical abuse to other damaging actions , including:

  • ¬†Stalking;
  • ¬†Repeated derogatory taunts;
  • ¬†Intentionally damaging or destroying property; and
  • ¬†Preventing someone having contact with family and friends.

Women’s groups argue the changes tip the balance of family law back towards putting the safety of children first, while men’s rights groups fear they will rob children of time with both parents.

Under the changes, the Family Court will be required to ask parents if there was abuse or a threat of abuse in the relationship.

The NRL has tougher standards, Ctd

ŠĒ• Sydney Morning Herald

As blogged earlier, the NRL has tougher standards than New Zealand political parties.

The new Australian Rugby League Commission has suspended Cowboys halfback Robert Lui for a year and Sharks player Isaac Gordon for nine matches after both were found guilty of domestic violence-related assaults.

If the White Ribbon campaign wants to maximise its publicity this year it should ask which political parties are protecting senior members with suppression orders for domestic violence?