Incompatible, we just don’t need them here

As I have constantly said…these people are incompatible with modern New Zealand society.

A woman who fulfilled her dead mother’s wish of finding a husband fears she might lose everything to her now ex-spouse.

The Auckland homeowner found love online with a man in Syria who she thought would be a suitable partner.

“My mother’s only wish was for me to get married, I’m from a Middle Eastern background and people care about that,” said the woman, who Te Waha Nui has chosen not to identify.

She moved to Syria to marry him and after months of living together, which she described as “hell”, she left him and came home.

She was raised in NZ, living in Syria would be a hell hole compared to here.

In 2014, during the Syrian crisis, her ex-spouse reached out to her, pleading she sponsor him to come to New Zealand.

The woman agreed and allowed him to live with her for two weeks, during which time she says he was physically abusive and controlling.

After receiving a protection order against him and attempting to withdraw her immigration sponsorship, she thought they could move on with their separate lives.

But the man continued to live near her, and has been granted refugee status.

Uh oh. Bad mistake…and now we have this ratbag living here, bringing his stone age views towards women with him.

The situation became worse when the protection order did little to prevent her from being harassed and stalked by him regularly, the woman said.

Women’s Refuge New Zealand said abusers control their victims through coercion and fear, in order to get their own way.

Out of the blue, the woman received a “devastating” letter, informing her her ex would be going for half of everything she owns.

“I pleaded with the Refugee Council of New Zealand, my local MP and the Immigration Minister to not let this man stay in New Zealand and I got no answers,” said the woman.

According to Immigration New Zealand, sponsors cannot withdraw their sponsorship even if the sponsored person stays in New Zealand unlawfully after their visa expires.

The woman hopes her story will prevent other women from entering similar situations.

I have an easier way to prevent this happening again…no bad wogs.

-NZ Herald


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As much at home writing editorials as being the subject of them, Cam has won awards, including the Canon Media Award for his work on the Len Brown/Bevan Chuang story.  And when he’s not creating the news, he tends to be in it, with protagonists using the courts, media and social media to deliver financial as well as death threats.

They say that news is something that someone, somewhere, wants kept quiet.   Cam Slater doesn’t do quiet, and as a result he is a polarising, controversial but highly effective journalist that takes no prisoners.

He is fearless in his pursuit of a story.

Love him or loathe him.  But you can’t ignore him.

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